Best Hair Length for Professional Women?

This is a very common question I get when speaking to corporate groups. It’s usually asked by a woman with long hair and everyone else in the audience with longish hair snaps to attention to hear the answer. While hair that falls longer than your collarbone is generally not considered professional, there are plenty of exceptions where longer hair works well for certain women. Here are some of the questions I ask my clients when this is an issue:

• Is your long hair keeping you in the past? Sometimes I see women with very long hair and it’s obvious they associate this look with their youth. But actually, long hair (especially worn straight down along the face) can be aging because it accentuates the effect gravity has as we get older by dragging down our facial features. In this case, a shorter cut may create a more youthful appearance overall. Also, as hair goes gray, the consistency of the hair shaft changes, often resulting in wirey texture that won't lay smoothly.   

  

  Low chignon:
  Still Polished!

  
• Are you wearing your hair long for someone else? This is a very typical issue where “my husband (or boyfriend) loves my long hair and doesn’t want me to cut it.” This can be a very touchy area for some women – and dealing with relationship dynamics is not an area in which I want to meddle. However, if you must keep your hair long for harmony at home, consider an up-do for work. A polished chignon, sleek and tidy, or even worn in a loose knot style can be a great professional-looking alternative.




Well-cared for:
Looks Healthy!


• Are you getting regular cuts? Often, when we wear our hair long, we neglect scheduling regular haircuts because it’s easy to just “let it go” for another month. The result can be a frizzy, damaged look at the ends and a general unkempt look which may negatively impact your image. Strive for maintaining your longer hair in excellent health with regular trims and careful conditioning -- you must be willing to make the investment in your long hair!
• Does your hair have a style or is it just long? OK, follow me on this point…Good grooming and carefully coiffed hair provide visual evidence that we care about how we present ourselves. Having a flattering hair style allows you exhibit an attention to detail in this aspect of your appearance. On the other hand, coming to work with barely brushed long hair may seem like you just rolled out of bed. Sometimes waist long hair (or longer) is simply distracting because it is unusual and becomes a focal point. Likewise, very long hair may seem to be wearing you, rather than the other way around.

Our hair is a highly personal part of our image – and it’s easy to hold on to outdated styles and cuts. Why not experiment with something new? If you hate it, well – you know… it’ll grow back!



Not A Passing Grade

The experiment is finished! If you haven’t read our last blog about the new Levis® Curve ID Jeans, this is a continuation of that blog. We measured ourselves per the instructions, ordered our jeans, tried them on, took some pictures, and we are now ready to report our findings.

• Kathryn and I were both surprised at the results of our measuring. We felt that we both would be a Bold Curve fit (jeans that usually fit in the hips and thighs, but gap in the back). However, based on our measurements, Levis® Curve ID said we were both Demi Curve (jeans that usually fit in the waist, but don’t flatter the figure). So based on that information we decided to order one pair of Demi Curve and one pair of Bold Curve for each of us.

• We tried to get the same jeans (finish and style) in Demi and Bold so we could compare the two side by side. I was able to do so, but Kathryn could not. Red flag here-there seems to be several sizes, fit and styles not available across the product line. Not sure why-maybe they are selling out?

Notice the waist

• I ordered Boot Cut-Night Streak in both Demi and Bold Curve and in the same size. Both pairs were too tight, even though I ordered based off my waist measurement. Also they were too low cut for a 40-something like me (I prefer no crack showing-thank you!) The waist fit better on the Bold Curve (remember this is what I thought I needed), but was way too tight in the hips and thighs. The Demi Curve (what my measurements from Levis® said I needed) was not as tight through the hips and thighs, but was huge in the waist.

Waist still gapping

• Kathryn’s experience was similar to mine. She ordered a Demi Curve (what Levis® measurements suggested) Skinny Boot-Glazed and we loved the finish of these jeans, but they were the wrong curve, gapped in the waist, and were also too low cut for comfort. She also order a Bold Curve (what we thought she needed) Straight-Etched. They also gapped in the waist and were too low cut.

Overall we were disappointed. Although we appreciate that Levis® is trying to create jeans for many body types, for us these missed the mark. We still had issues with the gapping waist on every pair and they were just too low cut for us. We would suggest finding a store that carries them, have a fit expert measure you and try on several pairs. If you want to try ordering online, be sure you get free shipping both ways. Bottom line-there is no magic bullet here. You will still need to try on several pairs before finding the best fit.

Coming up next week… Kathryn blogs about hair length for professional women!

Will We Ever Find the Perfect Jeans?

As you probably already know, we here at Image Matters don’t advocate wearing jeans to a corporate job. But the weekend is here, so let's talk about something new in the long-standing denim jeans industry.

Nearly every woman we meet has trouble finding a great fitting pair of jeans. They either gap in the waist, they are too tight in the butt and thigh, or the rise is too low -- the list goes on. We end up settling and never really loving what we buy. Whew-it’s exhausting and expensive! Well now there is something new in the jeans arena for all of us -- Levi's ID Curve.

The line consists of three fits:

• Slight Curve – designed to celebrate straight figures
  Slight Curve is designed to define a woman’s waist, while accentuating her curves. If jeans usually fit in the hips and thighs but are too tight in the waist, a woman should try the Slight Curve.
• Demi Curve – designed to fit even proportions
  Demi Curve is designed to flatter a woman’s waist, while smoothing her shape. If jeans usually fit in the waist, but don’t flatter the figure, a woman should try the Demi Curve.
• Bold Curve– designed to honor genuine curves
  Bold Curve is designed to hug the waist, without gapping or pulling. If jeans usually fit in the hips and thighs, but gap in the back, a woman should try the Bold Curve.

These jeans are based on shape-not size and the reviews have been very favorable. Levi’s® Curve ID was created as a result of studying more than 60,000 body scans. They found that 54% of women try on 10 pairs of jeans before finding one that works. I’m surprised it’s only 10 pairs-I try on way more than that! They also found that 80% of women represent one of three different body shapes-hence the three categories. The waist sizes of the Curve ID program range from 22 to 34 and will be available in three styles (boot cut, straight and skinny), with a handful of different finishes. All of the denim has a little bit of stretch to it, because "stretch is an important part of the fit technology for these jeans,” says You Nguyen, senior vice president of women's merchandising and design for the Levi's brand. I say stretch is a wonderful thing! Prices range from $60 to $148-not too bad for a custom fit jean.
I’m willing to give these new jeans a try. Maybe they will be the dream jeans we all want to find! Levi’s® Curve ID will begin rolling out in select Levi’s® retail store locations in the U.S. this fall. Each store carrying the line will have trained fit experts to measure women and help her find the best fitting jeans for her body type and style preference. If there is not a store close to you, visit Levi.com for instructions on measuring yourself to find your fit and to order. You can also explore product demos and learn more about the fit science on this site.
Stay tuned-We’ll let you know what we think after we measure ourselves (no stores close to us!), determine our fit (we think we know what we are-but we’ll see if Levi’s® agrees!), order our own pairs (or two or three pairs!) and try them on. Should be fun and interesting!

Smart Phone Meeting Blues

There seem to be two types of people in meetings these days – those tethered to their smart phones (overtly or surreptitiously typing away), and the rest of us seething with anger at what they are doing.

It’s a common issue I face, not only in meetings with clients but in group workshops, etc. When someone uses their phone to talk, text, check email messages or browse the internet during a meeting they are sending a clear message that they are not completely engaged in the business at hand. Sometimes people keep their phone out to check the time (because they don’t wear a watch). In any case, the message is still the same – they will be interrupted or choose to be distracted at any time. The rule for any face to face encounter is that people always trump machines. So, clearly the proper behavior is to keep the phone out of sight and on the silent setting unless you have some burning issue (or emergency situation) that you have explained to the others in advance.

OK, so we know that’s the correct behavior, but what to do to modify the habits of those addicted to their devices? For any person charged with running a meeting, I recommend announcing a short “housekeeping” list at the beginning of each session. This would include mentioning the length of the meeting, any potential breaks, a description of where the restrooms and water are located and the mobile phone policy for the session. I usually will ask if anyone has a “fire burning” that requires their cell phones to be left on. For all others, I ask if we can agree that all phones will be placed on silent or vibrate and out of sight for the duration of the meeting. I look at all the participants while nodding and smiling to ensure that they understand and are complying. I might restate the break time so that they understand that they can reconnect at that time.

The key is to re-articulate the phone policy at the beginning of each and every meeting – just be absolutely certain to honor the break times and the ending time of the meeting so everyone knows what to expect. Sometimes, I will say “Thank you for being physically present, now let’s ensure that we are mentally present by coming to an agreement about our phones….. “

If you are not running a meeting (but want to push the group to establish some ground rules) you can even ask the leader, “What’s the smart phone policy for this session?" You might seem like a nudge, but hey, it's going to take a concerted effort to remind people that fiddling with their phone is the same as saying "I don't respect the rest of you in the room!"

We'd love to hear your comments on how you manage this issue or creative ways to stop smart phone distractions in meetings.

Manx, Mansier, Mirdle, Bro?

OK, gentlemen readers – this issue has finally reached critical mass: Shapewear for men is the new reality. With more and more articles in the popular press covering this topic, I believe we can decisively say this category of “squeeze, tuck and hide it” underwear is here to stay.

What does this mean? Just as women have come to depend on products like Spanx to contain, smooth out, and stop the jiggling of excess flesh, you too now have a variety of sausage casing-like products to keep you looking young and svelte!Think Cosmo Kramers "Bro" concept was far-fetched?

Along with Spanx, Sculptees, and Equmen, there are no fewer than 12 companies marketing the slimming undergarments to both beer-drinking 40-somethings as well as body conscious younger dudes! And while some brave individuals are buying in person, the majority of purchases are online.

Benefits include:

• Smoothed out love handles.
• Slimmer waist.
• Redefined chest and no nipple show-through.
• Improved posture – potentially easing back pain.

When would you consider such a thing? Well, how about everyday? Can’t bring yourself to go there? What about those occasions when it really, really matters how you look – like an interview? Or a special event where many pictures will be taken? Because it’s hard to suck in the gut for more than a few minutes at a time, shapeware can really help make a good impression.
Women love Spanx – maybe it’s time men start to understand why! Worried about comments from the guys? Just tell 'em it's for back pain!
Words of caution: New girlfriends may be put off by false advertising. Reality bites back when you get naked!
Read more from the New York Times about this trend.

Body Language

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Nip It In The Bud

Self-awareness of professional appearance is a problem in many offices. It’s bad enough that awkward appearance issues occur in the office, but what do you do when it’s a daily occurrence and no one has the guts to say anything? That’s what we’re here for! Keep reading for some of those “hush” topics, and hopefully you haven’t fallen victim to any of the following.

Is it cold in here, or is it just you? Ladies, we all know what I’m talking about. It’s unfortunate, but inevitable...and awkward for everyone, especially for those colleagues that interact with you every day. Luckily, this is a problem that is easily fixed. Nipple covers are easy to find, especially online. For starters, we suggest these, or even these. Check out a local boutique for possible in-store purchases. It's also important to point out that this affects men as well (especially Simon Cowell).

What’s that smell? No one can mistake the smell of body odor. It’s certainly not pleasant, but what can you do about it, if showering is already part of your daily, morning ritual (which it should be)? Make sure you are using a deodorant containing both an anti-perspirant AND deodorant. It may also be worthwhile to consider using a prescription strength. Causes of body odor can vary from a lack of daily hygiene, to dietary causes, to hereditary factors, and remedies vary just as much. For an extensive list of possible odor-reducing suggestions, check out this website.

I know what you had for lunch. We’ve already touched on this topic in a previous post, but it doesn’t hurt to revisit it. Bad breath is something that everyone experiences. If you suffer from bad breath, be sure to carry gum or mints around with you, and a bottle of water. If you can’t brush after every meal, consider portable toothbrushes like these.If a co-worker suffers from bad breath, and you can’t figure out how to politely tell them, check out this website.

I thought we were at work, not a club. One of the most prevalent problems in the office is what women wear. Don’t know if you’re one of the guilty? If you can go straight from work to a party, you’re not dressing appropriately for a corporate position. A few questions to ask yourself as you’re getting dressed. Can you see cleavage? Keep in mind you may be working with taller people (men in particular) who can easily see down a low-cut shirt. Is my skirt too short? When sitting, a skirt should never be higher than 4 inches from the tops of your knees. Better safe than sorry. Are your clothes too tight? If you’re unsure, find a trusted friend, and get their opinion.

We hope these tips help you avoid any sticky office situations!